Friendship When You Least Expect It
All of this was true until recently, when my childhood YMCA summer camp best friend, a friend from dance, chorus, and more iconically, homeroom, and I all oddly decided to double-up on science courses. Abby Haffner and Paige Horvath are prominent figures in opposite parts of my life, making my interactions with them in AP Environmental Science and Honors Astronomy even more incredible.
Initially, I had no clue of the joy simply making a group chat to share a Quizlet would lead. Over a few weeks, labs done over facetime became sleepovers where white cheddar Cheez-It Grooves and memorizing various Just Dance routines are the focal point. Each of us has experienced friendships that were toxic or difficult to maintain, so uncovering the simple, free-spirited nature of our bond was magical. Nothing is challenging with them; our bond is the epitome of a healthy relationship.
I cannot count the number of times “I Want Crazy,” by Hunter Hayes or virtually any old Taylor Swift song has played while driving with each other. We love to go to target, explore new thrift locations, and most importantly, contribute to capitalism through our undying love of McDonald's Coke and fries.
Our friendship grows stronger every day. Despite the lingering pandemic and constant uncertainty, the steadfast light Paige and Abby create gives me nothing but a smile. They are my best friends, and I could not be more grateful to be alive at the same time as they are! Abby and Paige consistently remind me of how friendships should be; easy, equally supportive, and fun.
I hope you too get to experience friendships so extraordinary that you forgot what life was like without them. Until then, stay true to yourself and your values, as the most valuable relationships form when you least expect them!
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| Fun hats!! |
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| Our favorite snack! |
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| Paige and I <3 |
I'm so glad that you finally found a true group of friends! Finding a good group of friends is often difficult as for sometimes people don't want what is best for you, but what is best for them. Finding people who care for you and will always look out for you is so important. The true friends are those who will never let you down and is always rooting for you no matter what.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad that you were able to find two amazing best friends. Though it is sometimes hard to find the perfect match, when you finally do, it is great. Like you I discovered my best friend in school (while in German class). I couldn't be more thankful for her always being by my side. The support and love I receive from her is unmatched, so I am glad you are able to feel a similar way!!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy to hear that you made amazing close friends! High school is very hard and it is a time period when you need close supportive people in your life. Through school, specifically basketball, I gained some of the most amazing and supportive friends. It is so important to have people that always have your back, so I am super happy to hear that you have those people!
ReplyDeleteI am so happy to be in class with you guys in APES! You guys are all great people and I am so happy that you have finally found your people. Love you all!
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