Brougham Week 7

 My relationship with my mom

    Ever since I can remember, me and my mom have had this inseparable bond. I understand that most people have a very close relationship with their parents, however I am truly not exaggerating when I say my mom is my best friend. This relationship with my mother is something that I will never take for granted, as well as something I am very fortunate of having.

    Growing up, it became clear how similar me and my mom's personalities were. In some cases, similar personalities results in clashing or arguing, but it only made our relationship stronger. We have everything in common, including hobbies, music, tv shows, and foods. We also always plan lunch or dinner dates with each other that I always savor. Along with similar taste, she is always willing to risk anything for me. I know that she will always be willing to drop anything to help me, or my friends out. She is very caring about all of my friends and views most of them, especially my best friend Julie, as one of her own. She always does her best to stay informed on my life and continuously trying to find ways that she can help ease some of the pressure from work or school that may be on my plate. Her loving attitude radiates on to anyone she comes in contact with, ultimately making everyone she comes in to contact with adore her.

    Since November of 2019, I started working at the restaurant that she has worked at since I was three. Joining her at work has strengthened our relationship to new bounds. This is mainly because it is our time. With me working two jobs and being in school, and her working two jobs while also raising three kids, we both don't have a lot of spare time. Although this is not our spare time together, it still is a time where we are able to be with each other. Our job is also 20 minutes away, meaning we get 40 minutes there and back to just hang out. Those 40 minutes that I get twice a week just me and my mom are minutes that I treasure. Working together has also made us a team. After a year and a half of working together, we are at the point where we can almost read each others minds. I know how she is feeling by look of her face, and she knows how I am feeling by mine. 

Last but not least, she is always open to any personal choices that I make and is supportive of how I feel or act. She is like my own little cheerleader, even at times where I just need to be alone. However, despite the little arguments, despite the minor frustration, and despite over protectiveness she sometimes displays, I would not ask for a different mom. She is my best friend for life, and I will never be able to thank her enough for all of the amazing memories and constant care.

Me and my mom at work! (I can't flip it!!!)